San Antonio: Know Your C-Section Options
As a doula, when the reality of a c-section becomes more of a possibility, my clients sometimes think their autonomy and choice goes out the window. However, there are still many things to consider and advocate for if you have a planned or unplanned c-section. For example, the client featured here had a few preferences: she wanted me (her doula and photographer) to join her and her husband in the OR. In some hospitals, this may seem like a big ask, but I always tell my clients to advocate and insist as much as they’d like. For some, it’s not enough of a priority to be worth the trouble, for others — they make it happen!
Some other priorities for this client were: to not have both arms restrained, to have a clear drape to see baby born, for her husband to announce the gender, for her playlist to be playing her selected songs, for her husband to re-cut the cord at the warmer, and to hold her baby while the surgery was finished. It’s always so refreshing when an OB and anesthesiologist do everything they can to make these birth preferences happen. As a doula, I can tell you I’ve seen providers who go above and beyond to make these happen…and providers who wouldn’t lift a finger to make it happen. That’s why it’s so important to choose your provider wisely. And not just a provider that “seems friendly”. Ask the hard questions from day one, ask follow up questions and for them to clarify any answers that may seem vague, and don’t be afraid to hold your provider to their word as your pregnancy and birth unfold.
Thank you to this client for allowing me to share these photos from her birth story. If you’d like to see her full birth film, you can check it out on my Instagram! As mentioned in a previous blog post, I’m trying to make positive change in San Antonio for families having c sections, specifically by advocating for doulas and birth photographers to be allowed in the operating room. The first step being made is to start collecting impact statements from families who either had birth support in the OR (via a doula or birth photographer) or didn’t. These stories will be shared as impact statements on social media, in discussions with local providers, and more. If your doula was denied access to the OR, please explain the impact that had on your birth experience. Please click the link here to leave your statement.
